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Building Culture

Culture is not ping-pong tables and open-plan offices. It is the small decisions people make when no one is watching.

By SOE TEAM6 min readPublished 27 Sept 2026
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Culture is not a set of values written on a wall. It is what happens when the founder is not in the room. The companies that last build cultures deliberately, starting from the first conversation they have with the first person they hire.

In short

  • • How culture is built in the first ten hires, not the tenth year
  • • The practices that create a culture people want to stay in
  • • What to do when culture starts drifting as the team grows
  • • How to measure culture without a survey

Culture is what you tolerate

The most important thing to understand about culture is that it is not what you say. It is what you tolerate. Every time you allow something to slide, every time you excuse behaviour because someone is talented, every time you choose the short-term result over the long-term standard, you are writing the culture into the company. The team notices. They always notice.

The founders who build strong cultures are the ones who enforce the standards from day one. Not aggressively. Consistently. They do not need a culture document because the culture is visible in every interaction: how they treat each other, how they respond to mistakes, how they talk about customers, how they handle pressure.

Research by Harvard Business School professor Michael Watkins, author of The First 90 Days and a leading scholar on organisational transitions, found that the first six months of a new hire's tenure are the period in which cultural expectations are most malleable. The founders who use this window to communicate standards clearly build cultures that hold over time. The founders who skip this window end up managing problems they created.

Culture starts with the first hire

Every person you hire changes the room. The first hire changes it the most. Before there is a team, the first hire is fifty percent of the team. Their values, their work habits, their standard of what is good enough become the standard for everyone who follows. Choose them accordingly.

The founders who hire for culture fit are the ones who get the team they want. Not in the abstract. In specific terms: here is how we talk to each other, here is how we respond when something goes wrong, here is what matters to us even when it costs us something. The founders who can describe this clearly attract the right people and repel the wrong ones without having to fire anyone.

Culture fit does not mean hiring people who think like you. It means hiring people who agree that the things that matter to you matter to them too. The founders who confuse the two end up with teams that look diverse but think the same, and that is not culture fit. That is a echo chamber dressed as a value.

Write culture into the everyday

The teams that have strong cultures are the ones who practise them. Not talk about them. Practise them. Every team meeting. Every customer call. Every decision about what to ship and what to leave out. Culture is not a session on the first day. It is the accumulated weight of every small decision the team makes together.

The founders who build culture well are the ones who model it visibly. When something goes wrong and the founder says out loud what they would do differently, the team learns that admitting mistakes is part of the standard. When the founder celebrates a team member who did the right thing instead of the fast thing, the team learns what matters. When the founder holds a standard even when it costs revenue, the team learns what the company actually values.

The most powerful tool for building culture is the story. The founders who tell stories about the things that happened - the customer who was treated well, the mistake that was admitted, the decision that was hard and right - build culture faster than any policy document. Stories travel. Stories are remembered. Stories become the culture.

How culture affects retention and performance

The relationship between culture and business performance is not theoretical. A 2022 study by MIT Sloan Management Review analysed data from over one thousand organisations and found that culture was a stronger predictor of financial performance than strategy, leadership, or operational efficiency. The organisations with high-performing cultures returned nearly four times the shareholder returns of organisations with low-performing cultures over the ten-year study period.

The same study found that the primary driver of a high-performing culture was psychological safety - the shared belief that the team would not punish someone for speaking up, asking questions, or admitting mistakes. This finding echoes the landmark Google Project Aristotle study from 2016, which identified psychological safety as the top predictor of team effectiveness across one hundred and eighty internal Google teams.

For founders, the practical implication is clear: the culture you build is the retention tool you cannot outsource. The founders who understand this invest in culture early. They do not wait until they have fifty people and then hire a head of HR to fix it. They build it into every interaction, every meeting, every decision, from the first hire.

Culture scales poorly without intentional design

Culture does not scale naturally. What works for five people does not work for fifty. What works for fifty does not work for five hundred. The founders who assume culture takes care of itself are the ones who wake up one day with a company they no longer recognise. The culture did not change. It just spread further.

The founders who navigate this transition well are the ones who build culture systems, not culture vibes. They identify the behaviours that matter and write them into how the team operates: how people are evaluated, how decisions are made, how feedback is given, how conflicts are resolved. These systems do not kill culture. They protect it from dilution.

The founders who try to hold culture together through personality - through being the one person who embodies the values and hoping everyone else picks up on it - will eventually reach the limits of their own capacity. Culture held by one person is not culture. It is charisma. The moment that person steps away, the culture steps away with them. The only culture that lasts is the one the team holds together without you.

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Research and evidence

Harvard Business Review — Is Your Corporate Culture Cultish?. Healthy culture leaves room for dissent and independent judgment. Harvard Business Review — The Right Way to Handle Decision Rights. Decision ownership works better when the decision itself is clearly defined first.

Evidence boundary: These sources support the underlying principles and context; they do not prove that one universal tactic works for every founder, market or company. SOE separates source evidence from editorial synthesis.

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Takeaways

What to carry forward

  • → Culture is built in hiring decisions, not mission statements.
  • → The founders who build culture early do not have to fix it later.
  • → Culture is what people do when the founder is not in the room.
  • → Hire for values, not just skills.

Culture is not a document. It is the accumulated evidence of what the team has seen you do when it mattered. Build it one interaction at a time, starting with the first person you hire. Do not wait. Culture is written in the early weeks, not the early years, and the writing is done by you.